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Family
Aug 6, 2002 23:05:21 GMT -5
Post by LoTu on Aug 6, 2002 23:05:21 GMT -5
Whats so great about family? Why is your family so important to ya? what makes them so much better then your friends? Why do ppl put so much importance to there familys... To me, there just a bunch of ppl that your suppose to love cause there blood. Don't get me wrong, I love some of my family members, but whats the point... Personaly, I luv my friends more then my family, they mean more to me, there the ppl that are realy there for me... I just find that all are values, like family, are out of wack; some things just don't make sense... Is it just because we feel as if we owe them something? If I had to choose between my friends or family, well ya know... Can someone try to explain the values of family to me, cause i don't get it...
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Family
Aug 7, 2002 2:11:24 GMT -5
Post by Chaos_Childe on Aug 7, 2002 2:11:24 GMT -5
Well I have to say that apart from my Dad who I have a very close relationship with I don't get along with the rest of my family at all.... we are like sugar and vinegar... To all those who know me you know what I am saying...
In fact I have to say that my friends are my family.
I have nothing against blood-related families in theory but a sad fact in life is that some of them simply don't work.
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Family
Aug 7, 2002 12:28:38 GMT -5
Post by Nemesis on Aug 7, 2002 12:28:38 GMT -5
Happy families only exist in crappy tv-shows. ;D The reason most people cán get along with their family, is bcuz they are taught the should while being a child.
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Family
Aug 7, 2002 17:06:59 GMT -5
Post by LoTu on Aug 7, 2002 17:06:59 GMT -5
Exactly! Both of ya are right (in my opinion)... My friends are my REAL family to me! I LUV EM'
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Family
Aug 7, 2002 21:35:44 GMT -5
Post by CatBreath on Aug 7, 2002 21:35:44 GMT -5
i think there is a differnent kinda love... between friends and family well seeing that u do love'em of course and thats what makes the difference
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Family
Aug 7, 2002 22:52:59 GMT -5
Post by LoTu on Aug 7, 2002 22:52:59 GMT -5
Sorry cat, I don't follow...What is the diffrence between the 2, beside, Family is forced, friends are chosen...
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Bennu
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Family
Aug 7, 2002 23:23:16 GMT -5
Post by Bennu on Aug 7, 2002 23:23:16 GMT -5
True Family are those people you choose to have close to you.
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Family
Aug 7, 2002 23:26:21 GMT -5
Post by CatBreath on Aug 7, 2002 23:26:21 GMT -5
its a different kind of emotion.. thats all
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Family
Aug 7, 2002 23:52:23 GMT -5
Post by LoTu on Aug 7, 2002 23:52:23 GMT -5
But how, can you explain...
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Family
Aug 8, 2002 0:22:59 GMT -5
Post by CatBreath on Aug 8, 2002 0:22:59 GMT -5
explain emotion? nope sorry impossible ;D
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Aug 8, 2002 0:47:50 GMT -5
Post by Freya on Aug 8, 2002 0:47:50 GMT -5
[glow=pink,2,300]Well, I love my family..sure sometimes we don't get along..but that's needed, if not we'd be like the brady Bunch or something.. Yuck! But most of the time...we're an ok family! Actually, I've had people come up and tell me that I have the perfect family...*shakes her head* If they only knew! Anyway, enough of that... back to Lotu... Well, I can't tell you who to love, who not to love and what the difference is between them all...you'll figure that out when you need to...just don't rush it! Perhaps, you're just not suppose to know right now...but you will eventually...some day! I know I sound all....well wise and such..I AM!! Anyway...I hope you have more clear thoughts on this soon enough![/glow]
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Family
Aug 8, 2002 2:05:46 GMT -5
Post by LoTu on Aug 8, 2002 2:05:46 GMT -5
HuH?! I get along with my family 2 (kinda), but what is the big deal, whats so important about them...
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Family
Aug 8, 2002 2:11:04 GMT -5
Post by Nemesis on Aug 8, 2002 2:11:04 GMT -5
they share the same blood
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Bennu
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Aug 8, 2002 12:33:59 GMT -5
Post by Bennu on Aug 8, 2002 12:33:59 GMT -5
Such an important bond that.
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Aug 8, 2002 12:56:16 GMT -5
Post by WitchBoy on Aug 8, 2002 12:56:16 GMT -5
The only close family members i have is my mum and my dad (rip)
the rest of them can go to hell....
what close friends i do have around here, are my other family...
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